This feels much more intense and pleasurable for him, and it’s more fun for her to do, when he hasn’t ejaculated for many days.
With femdom she is going to deny him a climax. Denying him ejaculation has her enjoying her dominance and he enjoys feeling under her power. The dominance/submission dynamic can be so strong that it can distract from the pleasure of the playing.
With Devotional Sex it is the Knight who has committed to not ejaculating most times he gets hard. If he usually last for say 7 days, and this is day 5, then his Princess won’t even be thinking of the possibility of having him ejaculate. For her it is now just normal that this will end when she feels she has done enough and it ends without him ejaculating.
So she doesn’t feel that she is denying him.
She is though very much enjoying his energy and giving him pleasure. This isn’t teasing him, it is pleasing him.
She does feel very much in control. Especially when he is this aroused he will eagerly do anything she asks. And she can tell that just now he feels very hers because he has no idea when this will end and what, if anything might follow.
But even though he is hers, she doesn’t feel dominant. Him being her Knight and her having control has been the enabler for this play. And as domination/submission is not a major factor, both are free to fully appreciate the erotic energy and the giving and receiving of pleasure.
Of course there is nothing wrong with those who enjoy tease and denial with a strong dose of domination and submission. BDSM is a wonderful world for some.
But for those who are not into BDSM, and especially with couples where the woman isn’t naturally dominant or bossy, Devotional Sex provides another way of enjoying the fun and pleasures of sex